It starts with talking
Contact
Send me a message or fill the form. No obligation, at your pace, and you do not need to know yet what you want.
Contact a BDSM gigolo
Two ways to reach me. A message on WhatsApp, or the form a little further down this page. I usually read and answer within a few hours, and I do that myself, not some agency. I work with women and couples, across the Netherlands, Belgium and Germany, and for a session I travel to you. Discreet. That goes without saying.
What to write
You do not need to know what you want. “I am curious and I have no idea where to start” is a perfectly good first message, and it is one I get often. Tell me as much or as little as you like. I will ask the rest.
What helps to add, if you know it already: roughly where you are, how much experience you have, and whether there is anything you absolutely do not want. I can work with that straight away.
Rather write something out first? Use the form below. And if you want to look around first: what a session involves is on BDSM, the rates are on rates, and what other women wrote is on recommendations.
Let's get to know each other
Rather put a face to the name first?
A message is sent in seconds. Still, I understand better than anyone that this first step feels nerve-racking, because most women who write to me hesitate for a day or two before they hit send. So I keep it small. We start with an easy chat, nothing you’re tied to. No pressure. Just feeling whether it clicks.
Tell me as much or as little as you want to share. I’m curious who you are and what you long for, and I’m glad to think it through with you.
Rather write it out?
Send your message through the form
Fill in whatever you want to share, no rush. I read it myself and reply personally. Discreet, and with no obligation at all.
Ready to get to know each other?
Just send me a message.
No strings and discreet. The first step is the scariest, after that it gets easy on its own.