Privacy

Collect as little as possible. Keep it only briefly. Then share it with no one. Everything you tell me stays between us, period.

This statement covers the website bdsm-gigolo.com and the contact that grows out of it. I’m the one responsible, Victor. You can reach me at [email protected] or with a message on +31 6 26233870. Would you rather read the longer explanation first? It’s below, in plain language.

Only what you hand me yourself. Send a message through WhatsApp or the form and I see a name or an alias, a phone number or email address, and whatever you write. That’s where it ends. I really don’t need more than that to answer you.

I never ask for your BSN (the Dutch equivalent of a social security number) or your PIN, and not for your address or your work either. Whatever else you share to make our date good, you share freely, and with exactly as much detail as feels right to you. No more.

For one thing: contact with you. Reading and answering your message, feeling out together whether there’s a click, and planning a date if there is one. No advertising. No reselling, and no list you quietly end up on.

The legal basis is just as simple. You get in touch because you want to know something or want to meet me. Within that arrangement, and nowhere outside it, I handle your details.

Discretion is the core of my work. So I treat your details the way I treat our dates themselves: they stay between us. Messages sit shielded, on my phone. No one reads along. No one else gets to them.

A message goes through WhatsApp, which has its own security and its own privacy policy, separate from me. If you want contact that’s even more discreet, just say so. Then we’ll find a channel together where you feel at ease.

As long as our contact runs, and a little while after. Not longer. If it comes to nothing, or you ask me to wipe everything? Then our messages disappear. One message from you and it’s done.

Never. I work alone, no agency, no middleman. So there’s literally no one I could share anything with. Advertisers get nothing. Data companies get even less. The only conceivable exception is a legal obligation, and even then I give no more than what’s strictly required.

This site runs deliberately light. No tracking cookies, no advertising cookies, and I build no profile of your clicking. At most some functional data needed to show a page properly. So you can look around here in peace. No one is looking over your shoulder.

They stay your details, from start to finish. You can always ask what I have of yours, have it changed, or have it deleted completely. A message via WhatsApp or an email to [email protected] is enough, and I take care of it right away.

Can’t work it out with me? Then you’re free to file a complaint with the Autoriteit Persoonsgegevens, the Dutch data protection authority. Though I hope, of course, that we’re well past that together.

Unsure about something, or want to be certain before you send anything? Ask your question through the contact page, or just message me directly. I answer everything. Even that one question you find a little nerve-racking.