Recommendations

Lana

What a delightful evening it was again. That snap of your fingers, pffff, it made me warm right away. That was new, and so commanding. I didn’t know how fast to get on my knees. And what a delight, that beautiful big hard cock of yours straight into my mouth. For me it’s pure indulgence. I also find it an indulgence that you give me a little cushion to sit on the floor and be allowed to suck you. Thank you. How well you brought it out, that collar. It felt as if I’d fully earned it. And it had been a long time since I was allowed to wear it. I was so happy. It really does something to me, that collar. I’m far from a good masseuse, but I do find it so incredibly nice to do. Because there’s nothing lovelier than seeing you enjoy it under my hands, turned on or not. It makes me warm inside. And even though in a moment like that you give me complete freedom, there’s actually not a single moment when I don’t feel submissive to you. On the contrary, it stirs my feeling of love. And that constant physical contact where I get to explore your whole body is so nice. Just before I came to you yesterday, I was watching a few clips about jerking off a man. Because I feel I’m not very skilled at that. I’ve always focused more on the oral. But still I was a little inspired to give that beautiful cock of yours a turn too. It gave me such pleasure to see you so turned on! And what a wonderful reaction. It’s really one of the most amazing feelings when you grab me firmly by my hair and put me in the position you want. And when you tell me to stay like that, I don’t even dare to move. During the fucking you also had a good grip on me by the collar. Mmmmmm, the way you fuck me, I get hot right away whenever I think of it. And thank you for the lovely conversation. I love hearing you talk, you say good things. And did you know you also have a beautiful voice? It’s so nice that the feeling of trust I already had in you physically, I now see confirmed mentally too.

Nadine

My experience with Victor was fantastic! After years of doubting whether or not I would do anything with BDSM, I decided to take the leap, but as controlled as possible. And that’s how I eventually ended up with Victor.

I was incredibly nervous the first time, and it was so wonderful to notice that he picked up on that and gave me the space and time to settle in calmly. After that he took control, but in such a lovely way that I only wanted more of it.

Our first play was intense and enriching for me. Finally someone with whom this part of myself is allowed to exist and with whom I can explore this part further. By now we’ve played a few more times, and every time he manages to surprise me, boundaries are explored and new territory is discovered. And I’m looking forward to a next meeting!

Jasmijn

When I stepped into the world of BDSM, Victor crossed my path almost immediately. After a while of online contact, we arranged to meet, and oh, how exciting I found it, out of my comfort zone. Even so, I felt at home with him right away. He saw that I was nervous and I got to settle in first, he looked at me, sensed me and responded to that. A little feeling each other out, talking, being loving with each other because it’s so important… respect for each other and each other’s boundaries. He really takes his time for that. You’re allowed to be here, exactly as you are.

He gave me the trust to surrender myself to him completely and safely. And what a joy, that feeling of surrender and then receiving whatever it is you desire. He keeps an eye on every little sigh, every movement, even when you no longer know it yourself, he does. I never thought I would ever experience bdsm in such a safe, loving way. I recommend that everyone who wants to try this, or precisely if you’re already experienced, do it with him. His many years of experience make for exactly the right approach for you personally, but his insight into people also makes it even more personal and therefore even more special. His whole presence and tone make you feel secure, it’s good, and even when you doubt something, he listens to you, is there for you and thinks along with you.

Personally I find growth very important and I knew I had a path to walk there. Because I had always learned that the world and the people outside myself influenced my emotions and I allowed that, within bdsm I learned a very important lesson about myself: that only I could influence my inner world. Pain or discomfort usually isn’t pleasant, but mentally it meant I had to pay attention to my breathing and stamina to be able to handle a session. Stepping out of a certain comfort zone, and each time it went better and I could shift pain and a boundary, I felt proud of myself, I felt my own strength set in motion, what I was capable of. Through the sessions with him, I learned to draw this feeling out of myself. Something I now reap the fruits of, to handle other things in life better and to see them differently too. I feel much freer and a better person for myself and for those around me. I’m so glad he was able to help me with that and still does.

Apart from that, because of our dynamic I also find it incredibly hot, the challenge, the playfulness, the fun you have together, basking in the afterglow and lovely recovery in each other’s arms… switching off the world for a moment. I’d do it all another 100 times. I got so much back for it, in so many ways. Thank you for this intense and beautiful experience… a place where I can moor in my safe harbor, my coming home. Because that’s how it feels to me! It’s all worth it, of course this is a personal experience, but one that opened so many doors for me.

It’s the person and the intention put into it that creates such a unique experience, as well as your own willingness to surrender, in what you desire to receive from him. And honestly, one look from this man is enough. You’ll go to the ground, and not because he demands it of you, but because you desire it yourself. And that’s where it all begins… there aren’t many like him.

Hilde

Victor is an attentive, intelligent man with a good sense of humor. His calm presence combined with his natural dominance gives you a safe feeling as a sub. He senses your mood flawlessly and, in his own unique way, knows how to create a pleasant atmosphere.

Victor always knows how to hold the balance between hard and soft. Pleasure and pain flow into each other, and he can be unpredictable in how he acts.

He respects his sub, her boundaries and wishes, without losing any dominance. He makes it possible to discover new territory and learn to enjoy it.

Love, Hilde

Laura

Coming home to yourself, so skeptical but it turned out to be so true. My first steps on the path of BDSM, so very much searching. The emphasis on confidentiality, privacy and respect for boundaries was also really striking, so that nothing was left undiscussed.

The contact before, during and after my experience was great, which made the experience of being submissive, in the bondage combined with breathplay, super hot. I didn’t know you could get so horny and aroused from this. The blowjob was a challenge combined with deepthroat, which was indescribably good. Fucking after foreplay like that is so different, wonderful.

The psychological aspect before, during and after should definitely not be forgotten. Victor already knows what you want and senses it before you do yourself. Thanks for this experience and until a next time.

Lisanne

After a long time hesitating and exploring whether BDSM would be something for me, I finally decided to take the plunge and get in touch with Victor. From my very first message the communication was clear, warm, and professional. In the run-up to our meeting we communicated a lot via WhatsApp, which helped me enormously to feel at ease and to get a better picture of Victor before we met.

One of the first things that stood out to me was Victor’s emphasis on confidentiality and privacy. This really put me at ease and made me feel safe to discuss my desires and boundaries.

His website promised that you may come home to yourself and that all your boundaries would be respected. This sounded reassuring, and at our meeting it turned out to be more than true. Within the safe boundaries we had agreed on, a fascinating world opened up for me, full of exploration and intense pleasure.

Lune

Victor is the best gift you can give yourself. Whether you’re curious about bdsm or already have experience with it. It doesn’t matter. He sees you as a person. Together with him you head into a fun and wonderful adventure.

I already have a few years of experience with bdsm, but due to circumstances I haven’t been able to do anything with it in recent years. I no longer felt whole. Because of him I’m whole again. I’m so grateful to him for that.

I’m a person of feeling, and certainly in bdsm my feeling leads me. Victor gives you a good feeling, a safe feeling. And he does everything with you within your boundaries.

Don’t doubt it. Just do it, ladies!!!!!!!

Shelly

The first time Victor and I met (after meeting each other in a bar) was at a café in Rotterdam. From the very first moment I had the feeling I could trust him; it probably helped that we both have a background in mental health care. During our first meeting he guided me through setting boundaries, something I of course know in theory and even teach my own clients, but which I find difficult in an intimate situation.

In short: I’m a 26-year-old trans-masculine lesbian who has experience with people who crossed my boundaries, including sexual abuse and rape. I don’t let people touch me in a sexual way (and the times it did happen I panicked) and I’ve only recently been learning to touch myself again. A year ago I started working with a mistress, and on that path he crossed my way.

From the meeting in the café I began to let my defenses down and I genuinely felt only the best intentions from him. Both of us with a background in BDSM, he grabbed my hair and closed his hand around my throat, sensations that calm my nervous system. He is kind and tender, with exactly the right amount of strictness and steadiness.

Jill

I really liked how you took the time to settle in, you could also sense really well when I was stressed and such, especially at the beginning. It was also really nice that you took a break or some time now and then to check in on how things were going.

With respect you let me find my own boundaries.

You also respected my hard limits without any problem.

For me it was a new adventure that I enjoyed and I’m glad I got to discover it.

Esther

Honestly? I spent weeks doubting before I messaged him. Not because I didn’t want to. The price is simply steep, and I found it terrifying to spend so much on something I didn’t even know would suit me. Looking back, I do understand that amount. This really isn’t a standard little date.

Honestly though: the first time I didn’t really get there. Was too much in my head. It was me, mind you, not him. What won me over was precisely that Victor made no big deal of it at all. No pressure. Not a sigh of disappointment. The second time everything fell into place and only then did I feel what it’s really about.

Looking to score quickly? Then I don’t think this is for you. Take your time, and you get a lot back for it.